Right on Wildman... sounds like this relationship is working out.

 

More than working out. It couldn't be better man. Thanks for the props. It is so nice to have somebody special. That is and has been there for me. As I have been there for her as much as I can. She is a God send. And I am very happy. Just need to get some other things in my life better. Than it will be even greater than it is now.

 

Okay...I have given it some thought. I think I will ask my g/f to marry me, very soon. Then I will ask her father, for her hand in marriage. And the ball will start rolling. I am going to ask her. Where we first became official. I think that will make it, all the more special. Probably either this month. Or possibly the next month. (which will be May) I love her with all my heart. And I know that she is the one for me. I can see, spending the rest of my life with her. She is a true blessing, and a God-send.

 

woah! sounds fun! how long has it been? 6 months? or a year?

 

Been over 6 months. This month April 20th. Will be 7 months. I already ordered the ring tonight. I am either going to ask her on our 7 month anniversary. Or May 20th, which will be 8 months together. I will let you all know, what I decide. Thanks for the support, and encouragement. That goes for everybody on here, that has been there for me. You all rock.

 

i asked my gf two months after getting together,hmmmm...three years ago...and im getting married this year , nov 14 09 ....thingss have been great for me..good luck dood

 

that works too. Short dating time, long engagement.

Just wait 2 years min before getting married.

 

yeah i'd say so. to be honest, i've been with a girl for 3 years, and i'm still not positive that i'd want to stay with her forever. i plan to marry her, but I'm not positive yet. i guess every situation is different, but i feel like i should advise anyone to give it at least two years. i'm sure you won't though. so good luck.

 

So, all these Russian chicks, trying to get someone to pay for them to come to America are not scams? How do you know? She might just be waiting until you marry her, to become a US citizen, and then it's all over? Isn't it kind of rushed because she can't stay very long on a visa?

 

lol ^^^^ that was OLD news dude, he has a new gal thats local to him. and that russian bitch was a scam

 

I knew it!!! LOL

 

Well...I have some awesome news. I asked my girlfriend earlier tonight, to marry me. And she said yes! I am officially engaged. I am still taken back some. But verry happy! Woo hoo!!!

And we have been together for 10 months now.

 

Congrats WildmaN!!

 

w00t!

 

wow--congratulations---happy life --fair winds...~~~~~_/)~~~~~~~

 

well you held out longer on the proposal than i originally thought lol so good job, i was worried you would do it after 3 months haha. but yes congratulations indeed. when can we expect the wedding invites? lol. open bar i presume....

 

Pics or it didnt happen!


thats a good idea.....maybe i'll get engaged in 1 year 11 months and a 1 day who knows...

 

...and I thought when this thread came back that you would have broken up with her.

well congrats!

 

Here is the pic, with her wearing the ring, after I proposed to her. At the place we first became official.

 

Done....now stifle it! lol

 

That would have been horrible. And would have been the dumbest thing I could ever do. No way, we are good to go. Oh and thanks for the congrats man. Means alot.

 

Yes...when I was talking about it before. I wasn't quite ready. And it just didn't feel to be the right time. I knew it was being together 10 months.

As for invites. Umm do you feel like traveling a few thousand miles for the wedding? lol I don't know about an open bar. Planning for the wedding and such. Of course..is already rolling.

 

All in all...thanks everybody for the kind thoughts and congrats. You all Rock!!

 

haha. im only kidding, i have to pay for me and a date for my sisters wedding next year already, and i'll be a freshly graduated college student at that time, so i think i'll have enough wedding right there for a while haha.

 

Congrats! I don't think you can put a time limit on love, but, you need to experience all aspects of that person before you can say "I will spend my life with only you."

Living with someone, sharing bills, cleaning the house or not cleaning the house, having pets, all that can show you exactly how your life with her will be down the road when you get married, most girls do change quite a bit when they get married, its the "Oh now it is harder for him to leave me so I can be a lot more honest about my true self." just keep living together, experience all the lows and highs before you commit for life to someone has been how I have been handling my relationship.

Make sure you share all the wedding pics with us.