#1... This thread needs to be re-named "Man-Drama."

#2... You can't leave us hangin with "She's back!!!!" DETAILS!!!

 

just what I expected...

 

I'll let you all know...when I get a chance. I got to tear apart my Z tomorrow. I had to have it towed home last night. Too much stuff to do at the moment. I'll get back to you.

 

Yeah well....A week and a half ago. I decided like a fool to make it work. Well it started to get rocky again. So I decided to end it last night for good. Well guess what? She met somebody before I broke it off. So instead of me cheating on her. She cheated on me. She will pay for that...and I will friggin' laugh. I didn't even cry or nothing. When I broke it off last night. Good riddance...

 

how will you get even with a girl you broke up with. dont do anything lame unless its sleep with her best friend or mom or sister. cause THATS cool. haha

 

he could do all three then say he lives in Illinois.

 

Ya! Mom! dooo it

But in all seriousness, I am probably saying goodbye to my chica today too. I'm hoping it feels as good as your good riddance makes it seem.

 

depends on what the reason is... i can tell you right now how you will feel after wards haha.

 

No guys...I am not going to do anything to her. It will come upon her in some way or another. I will not be involved in it. You know what goes around comes around?

 

Okay..update..for anybody that cares. lol I met a wonderful girl here within the past couple of months. And then told her how I felt this past week. We have now gone out 4 times. And she just agreed tonight. That we are official. So I am very happy & content right now. Oh the other thing is. She believes in the same God I do..goes to church. And we have so much in common...it is incredible. And also she is 28..heh heh

 

sounds like a much better choice all around bout time LOL

 

28! That's OLD for you, Wildman! naw, sounds good. I hope things go well.

don't spill your heart to her too soon. Remember your training and you will do well.

 

Thanks guys...lol Anyway I appreciate the good feedback. She is way different than other girls. I have been with. I may post a pic of her. We will see on that one. Well off to work...thanks again. I'll keep you all posted.

 

best of luck,. aaron---

 

Thanks everybody. But I have some bad news for you. I'm afraid you wont be able to see a pic of her. I asked her tonight..if I could post pics of her. And she rather I didn't. So I told her...I will not do it. Out of respect for her. Now there is something else. I have realized..here it comes..

I came to realize..that I really only lusted after my ex. When I was with her...because mainly she took my virginity. That was why I was so hung up on her. Like a dog...needs a bone. Or a wolf tasting blood. I wanted to taste it again. But now..that is gone with her. And I have moved on. I really could not find anything else good about her. Other than she was hot and sexy. And a beautiful woman. But only on the outside. She actually started to turn me into something I didn't want to be. She brought out the bad in me. Which was not good. I started to turn into a jerk...and a *****. And I didn't like it. As much as I wanted it to work. I knew deep down...that it never would. Nor would God..allow it to work. I feel the night...that I tried to make things better with her. Is why I got the speeding ticket on the way there. And then my Z broke down..after I got back with her. God did not want me to go back to her.

And so in all of this. I have met a wonderful sweet..kind hearted..and awesome Christian woman. So now here comes the part. As to why I was running away with my words. lol I went out with her..with her brother and his friends. And then afterward...when we sat outside. She told me first..I love you. And then I said it back. And I actually truly do love her. Not lust...love. Which I have learned...are two entirely different meanings. Anyway I am so happy..and so is she. She is coming Sunday to church..to meet my family. I have already met hers. And they are great...and wonderful people. Okay that is all...more to come later. Thanks for listening everybody.

 

Do you speak. In. Fragments, too?

 

lol^^^^^ ok that was kinda harsh yet pretty funny just the way it was put.

also, i get the story i just dont know what girl to associate with what story.... didnt know girls could turn you into a jerk though thats a new one for me. otherwise sounds cool, but how long have you been seein this christian chicky that she pops the L-word on you?

 

Hey...look at when I posted that message. It was late at night. lol Anyway I have only dated her..since September 7th. But have known her for a little over 2 months. We were officially bf/gf..a week ago this Sunday. Anyway she is wonderful..and sweet. And many other things. And I love her more everyday. She is a huge blessing to me. And I have thanked God for bringing her into my life. We also got a pic taken together today. I wish I could put it in my sig. Because I would. I may ask her..if I can put the pic of us at least in my signature. I'll let you all know. And thanks for the feedback..

 

You have had lots of girlfriends. I have dated for well over a month and not called a woman my girlfriend.
Maybe it's different in the desert.

 

i think that L word popped way fast, its hard to imagine people in there 30's tossing it around like middle schoolers lol but yeah i usually date a chick (not just know them) for aboot a month to see if i can tolerate them, its like a trial relationship before i get exclusive then wait quite some time till i use the L word, ive only used it once seriously (on some one other than family or my cat or something lol) and it was a good 5 months into the relationship, also i pulled that card to get my *** out of trouble with her haha... but i did mean it. then she went bitch **** on my a month and a half later, im still pretty confident she is clinically insane since i broke it off cause now 2 years later if she knows i know some one that i dont get invited to the same place as her since it happened once already and she couldnt even handle being within 40 feet of me OUTSIDE! it was pretty funny once i realized it was her she me and i hear an OMG!!!! i shoulda been like, hey dont i know you? yeah ive seen you naked!!!!

 

Yes..I have had my share of them. lol But those were all dead ends. Even the one I planned on marrying..in '94. And in my heart I feel this is right. So maybe it is because I am in the desert. lol But whatever the case. I know God...had something to do with it. And has brought her into my life. I was meant to get that job. Where I am at. And so was meant to meet her. And be with her. I miss her as soon as we are apart. We have a hard time..saying goodbye to one another everytime. I see her at work everyday. But we can't do anything there. Nobody at work knows we are together. Because we know it would cause problems. I have also told her. That in reality I don't really care if they do know. Or figure and find out..that we are together. I wont hide her...and she agreed with me.

 

And of course the L word pops up fast. And that one would be "Lust". Which is much more common than "Love" Anyway like I have said. There is no set timeline to love. It can happen...and that is it. My sis and bro in law. Only were together a month or so. And knew they wanted to be together for life. So after 7 months..they were engaged. And so have been happily married over 2.5 years. Also...this is the ONLY girl. I have ever been with. That my family has approved of. Which is huge to me. They have seen my attitude change. And have noticed how much more happy I have become. My bitterness has faded. And I have got better..at not swearing like I used to. I haven't used the f word..in like over a week now. And I watch my language around my g/f also. And God has blessed me alot also. Since I have met her. Especially after I broke it off..with my last g/f. And started being with my g/f now. Everything is great now...and I love her more with each passing day. She is absolutely wonderful...

 

sounds like a pretty impressive change. i'm with the perfect girl, but i'm still bitter all the time lol

 

cause shes a bitch!!!! ^^^^ lol idk just felt like saying it


also im not passing judgement on the use im just making light of how quikly u get in deep over and over haha. but she sounds like a good girl much closer to your age and if the family likes her, then just do what you can to keep things fresh and her interested. just remember, when you fall head over heals you can stale out a relationship by accidentally getting clingy, its still my kryptonite, if i get crazy ga-ga over a girl i tend to jew the deal by like texting or calling a bit to frequently or just trying to hard in general.... i think i finally have it under control now though.


also, whats ur new job? and unless you or her have superiority in the work place as in some managerial status you cant get in trouble for having a relationship, and usually thats only in corporate owned businesses

 

Yeah..I hear you man. I am not offended or anything. Anyway we can be clingy together. Because we both can't be apart from each other. It's hard to say goodbye everytime. But we have to. But it just makes us want each other more. And when we meet again. We are so happy..and everything is good. As for the new job. I work at a print shop in Phoenix. I started in July. And I was hurting for a job and such. And got the call on a Sunday afternoon. And no..we can't get in trouble for being together. Just that you know..people like to talk and run their mouths. And if word got out. That we are together. It can cause problems for us both. Considering we both work in the same area. Minus she runs a printing press. And I run a card slitter. But still the supervisor has a sister. That likes to run her mouth. And be a snitch and such. But I have learned to just go along with my work. And pay no mind to her. She used to get under my skin. But I broke away from that. And just tune her out. So all in all. If eventually people at work find out. That we are together. So be it. I am not afraid..and neither is my g/f.